Yes take it with a grain of salt. Put some sugar in there, too. Hell, why not throw in a canned ham while we’re at it and throw in a bag of Jim’s Magic Rocks. They’re hand picked to heal what’s troubling you, personally. Yes, through divine prophecy. If someone says something about me take it with an ice cold Pepsi and about 2/3 of a Viagra 100. That should be enough to make up your own mind.
It was also the eye held half-closed to the wind of the window that was down and the hot California wind blew my hair back into its best shape. That eye still took a beating even with shades pulled down. A loose cigarette cherry now and then bounces off my cheek and some orange gets put out by the water in my eyes. Lucky I still have one good eye to see enough to drive, were my thoughts. Lucky I can use my good eye to see what I’ve got in the side of my half-open eye when I pull out my eye lid and try to look way over there.
To answer your question, whatever people say about me is probably true if it’s something that seems like it’s a pretty cool way to be. Conversely, if someone said something that makes me out to be a dumb ass or just an all around bad guy then, of course it’s not true.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Thank you for the A2A. First of all, it’s possible so it can be true that people know my name because I tell it to them. I may have been the name you saw at the top left side of an answer you happened to see coincide with your take on the issue. You might not have known you felt that way because it’s not a place that your thought patterns would have looked at it from.
It was made that way from a cigarette held in the corner of my mouth. My head cocked ever so slight so the trail of white curly columns of a slow twirling stench covered smoke from my stink sticks wouldn’t go directly up and into my eye. I sacrificed one eye and held it closed because that column of smoke would waft off in a straight line directly toward that furthest, highest-held, half-closed eye.
Outside of Quora readers who number in the hundreds of millions there is nobody who would have told you my name other than me. My path has been all over this globe. If my life, up til now, has been anything I need to apologize for then I’ll go ahead and do that. You more than likely will have never heard of me, or my name. Some people might have had a different experience and memories hsve s guy whose name is Jim and you knew him for years. Or, that guy I was that one time but you didn’t get my name. You saw a recognition in my young lazy eye.
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I spend a lot of time every day just observing the many ways it’s lucky that a certain something is like that certain way it is.
